I would say "Hope springs eternal ..." (or occasionally the longer quote "Hope springs eternal in the human breast") is fairly common and I have definitely used it myself, though I can't remember a specific occasion.
If someone said to me "Trump might change once he is sworn in", I might reply "Hope springs eternal ..."., with a touch of "Wer's glaubt wird selig", but it is not always used cynically.
It does not bring tears to my eyes.
The other possibility for me is "Hope is the last thing to die." Though the meaning is similar (potentially unrealistic optimism to the last), this is completely different. It has, I think, a much stronger, serious implication of vain hope. I see there is some music on Youtube with the title "Hope is the last thing to die" (
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RABzDAShtzI ) dedicated to the crew of the
Kursk.
For me, for personal reasons, it conjures up images of the relatives of miners whose fate is unknown, when they are starting to schedule the funeral services following a mining disaster.