It's interesting how different people "analyse" this and apparently perceive others' opinions.
,#29
I don't think anyone has said that it is advisable to say these things.
#27
"My point is that only the immediate neighbourhood of a plural pronoun can explain the mistake of one of you are. "
I think this is where we differ -- to be precise: the word "only".
Personally. if I received an email like this I would guess that it was an editing error, For instance, the author might have written something like "if you don't agree ... ", meaning the individual recipient, and then realized (possibly after some other changes) that it was ambiguous and he needed to indicate that the intended meaning was "if any one of you disagrees, we will not do it", so added "one of" and forgot to change the verb.
In this case, though, the text was actually written by Noranius and the issue seems to be whether the second or third person is correct, not whether to use a single or a plural verb (where proximity, or attraction, can indeed be an issue, alongside grammatical and notional concord).
So, perhaps the choice is between "voodoo arguments" and "Themaverfehlung!" (:-)
"There is no single person being addressed. There is a single person referred to."
I should probably have been clearer and said that "one of you" is singular and the referent belongs to the set of those addressed, making it "notionally" second person.
I wonder if this could be compared to the imperative with an (optional) subject and a tag question, e.g.
"Somebody shut the door, will you?"
Or is it "Somebody shut the door, will he?"? (;-)
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Or "One of you shut the door, will you?"