| Comment | Will that be all on one ticket / all together? (when ordering) Will that be all together / all on one check? (when finishing eating)
In the US as well, I think the default is to assume one check, because otherwise it really is more work for them and harder to keep everything straight, including probably harder for the cooks to synchronize two tickets for the same table so that the food comes out all at the same time.
Customers can request separate checks at the beginning of the meal, and most restaurants will do it, though some won't. Waiters may offer of their own accord to write separate checks for everyone in a really large group, but you can also expect a fixed service charge of 18-20% per person in any group over, say, eight people.
But if you aren't a really large group and haven't asked in advance, you can't really expect the waiter to split up the dishes according to who ordered what at the end; that would be too much to ask. The most that people typically do at the end of the meal is ask the waiter to put, say, half the total on one person's credit card and half on another, which is usually easy enough for only two credit cards.
But if half a dozen people want to each pay their own, you're usually stuck with cash, in which case one person often volunteers to collect and count it, perhaps paying by credit card and making up any small difference. (Anyone petty enough to underpay isn't going to be persuaded by argument, and if anyone really is short of money, the kind thing is to help them out.)
I agree that 'go Dutch' is used mainly only when inviting a group to meet for a meal and making clear that each person will pay their own way.
'Split the bill' isn't wrong, but that would be more for between two diners, or two couples, afterward. Whoever had the less expensive thing might offer, 'Shall we just split it down the middle?', rather than calculating each person's share exactly, which, again, can look petty, though not uncommon. (Hassling over pennies is said to be more typical in groups of women, perhaps because women have traditionally had less money to spend.)
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